The Reality of Dating Older Women and Younger Men

By | July 16, 2017

In the subject of love, the hope is always that you do not encounter any barriers and blockades to its success. In the heart, people are usually convinced that real love can trump over any other material thing such as wealth, money, class and so on.

So, what of age? Age especially when it involves older women dating younger men? Fluke is the best term to describe a relationship of a young man and older woman. However, the term can change as more of the older women are getting involved with younger men, and the couples are making great headlines all over.

Some say, age is just a number particularly the young men who date older women. For the aged women trying to come back to the game of love and dating, it can really be a daunting experience deciding whether someone is right for you in terms of age. The question that will run through the head of an old woman though they may not say it is, “is this man too young to date me?”

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Let’s see whether old women dating younger men are doomed from the beginning or can live a happy life forever.

Old Women Make First Move

There are some things that are inevitable. Possibilities are that, an older woman in a relationship with a young man can have a lifetime relationship and also live happily all through the way. Those aged forties but feel young both in the body as well as soul, can easily attract a younger guys in mid-twenties or maybe thirties. Good for you, age is just a number, love is all that matters in a relationship. What’s for sure is that, if you have to get into a serious relationship, then you must be so certain and proceed with caution.

Why Old Women Prefer Dating Young Men

It is always believed that possibilities of a man married to a younger woman bearing more children are high. Women on the other hand, prefer older men because, in one way or another they can be offered various resources as well as stability. However, surfacing gender roles in the society of today have contributed to rather more equality between the male and females and this for men is challenging the antiquated notion.

Sex and Company

A woman’s definition of sex is not about quantity but the quality. Older women dating younger men love the strength and quality sex younger men can offer. Unlike old men, a young man has the energy, the drive and passion of making love. They believe a young man can satisfy them in bed more than the older ones.
Most of the old women dating young men do so because they are lonely and haven’t been able to find the real love of a man. Two things are bound; either the woman lost her husband and wanted to move on with her life or she has not been able to find a man all her life. Women tend to enjoy a company of a younger man more than the older ones, so a “fluke” it is or maybe destiny makes the relationship stick.

What Men Gain From Dating Old Women

Sometimes, to date an older woman is just a learning experience. You get to interact wholeheartedly with someone with more experience than you in terms of relationships. She will tell you what to do when you are in bed, she will ask you to pick the best restaurant for a night date. In fact, a younger man does not find it hectic in entertaining older chicks. They are the type that do not complain too much to their men. She will not fix you down when she is bored or beg for your attention. Men dating older women have easy time than those with younger ladies.

Challenge for Old Women Dating Young Men

While dating a younger person as a woman you must think. Look at your future and what is bound to happen in about 10 years to come. Ask yourself questions, will this man leave me? Am I going to get a facelift to impress him?

Obviously, almost no young man would like to flirt around with a wrinkle-faced woman. Just think of yourself as beautiful and because of the fear in you, try to get more solutions. Despite your age, just move ahead with life and become a really kinder person, with more love. This will keep you going.

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